Tuesday, March 24th, 2015.
“The outer conditions of a person’s life will always be found to reflect their inner beliefs.” – James Alen
No one can help a man make his life better who won’t alter the inner beliefs that limits him on the outside. Just like the Law of the paradigm shift; you see things not like they are but like you are. Your beliefs impact positively or negative on your perspective - and they make life mad or mild on you.
One of the things I practice often that has helped my relationships is giving people ‘the benefit of the doubt’. I always ask subjectively, 'what if this person means something different from what I think by this action or word?'. Behind everything people do is a reason; behind every word is a tone. An offender can say ‘sorry’ and get the offended more irritated and infuriated because of the tone behind the word – and in all honesty, the offender might mean good. Beliefs are the driver and regulator of our thoughts, words and actions.
Thought:
Your belief system determines the kind of thoughts you permit in your heart.
Action:
Your belief determines the kind of actions you take. e.g, goals and planning.
Your belief determines the kind of #Goals you set; Small or Big Goals.
Your beliefs determine whether you plan/pay or play.
Action Exercise: Take 5 minutes to do a belief check. Write down all your beliefs and start working on them.
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